divorce

Let me tell you about the date I went on with Katalina on Friday. If you recall I went and got a haircut and made sure I looked ok before going on my date with her. I took her to that restaurant I had mentioned and the food was really good. None of the books I read about dating helped much but I did find a few websites that told me what to talk about and more importantly what not to talk about on a first date.

Let me share with you what I learned and how it all went.

The first thing I learned was to ask a lot of questions. The more she talks about herself the better. Even when she asks you a question, try and reply in the form of a question.

Talk about family. Ask her questions about her family. Did she come from a big or a small family? Does she want a family? Did she enjoy growing up in her household around her family?

Tell jokes and be funny. When a woman is not talking, then she better be laughing.

Test and see how intelligent she is by talking about complex subjects probably starting with science and moving your way down to art eventually. Her replies will give you a good gauge on how soon you will get bored with her brain. jk.

Talk about yourself. You are probably thinking right now this doesn't make any sense... women don't want to hear a man go on and on about himself... but you are wrong cuz they do. The sooner you tell them about your likes and dislikes the sooner you can determine if there is a match between you. When I read this part I was skeptical but when I tried it on my date it worked well and I found out while we do have some things in common, we also had a lot of differences.

Exhibiting good taste. It seems that women prefer men who are somewhat cultured and who can appreciate the finer things in life and be able to recognize and comment on them.

Sex. Do not talk about it unless she brings it up first. You do not want to appear like most guys and come off as desperate.

So that is all the shit I learned and read online before I went on the date with Katalina and I think it helped a lot. We talked about a lot of stuff over dinner and thanks to using the system above I was able to find out pretty much everything I needed to know about her. By the end of dinner I already knew so much about her past and also about her personality and her likes and dislikes. I was thinking about the summary of all parts and I wasn't sure if this girl was going to be good long term material for me or not. I was thinking that maybe we didn't have enough in common and wasn't sure how long the magic would last.

She asked if I would like to come over to her place after dinner for a nightcap etc. I said ok and we proceeded to her place. Like I said before, she has two young kids and when we got to her place she said they were sleeping at it was no problem. We could chill out in the basement. She poured me a drink and we sat on the couch and we were chatting about bs nothing when all of a sudden she switched the conversation to sex. I was like hmmm should I bite or should I leave it alone. The next thing I know we are talking about all of our sexual preferences etc and because I had told her that I like blowjobs she said to me near the end. How about I give you a quick bj before you leave and I actually replied "what?" "what did you just say?" and she actually repeated it and I was like omg didn't see this coming. She totally surprised me but what was I supposed to say or do... I was like ok and she leaned over and unzipped my pants. It was a good night and I still am not sure how to interpret this. I have chatted a few times with her since then and she definitely wants to get together with me again but for some reason my gut is telling me she may not be the one so I am not in a rush to hang out with her again until I sort things out.

Hello everyone. I am happy to report that I have a date lined up for tomorrow night. Her name is Katalina and she is 35 years old and she is also divorced. She said that she has a daughter and that her daughter lives with her. I have no problem dating someone with kids, I mean I have kids myself and even though I don't have custody of them anymore I am not bitter and I am down with dating someone who has kids themselves. She is an accountant and works at a small firm. She seems like a nice girl who just got caught up with some deadbeat and now has a kid to show for it.

I plan on taking her tomorrow to a restaurant called Lagniappe Brasserie which is this awesome French place I have been eager to go check out. I really need to take my car to the shop though because it is making this clicking sound in the engine. But I don't think I am going to have a chance to do this before our date tomorrow night. I am just going to have to lie and tell her that it just happened this morning or something.

I am pretty nervous about this date and I am going to get a fresh haircut in an hour or so from now and I have some nice clothes picked out for the date. I have been reading some online guides to dating and what I should and should not be asking or revealing on date one etc etc. I will let you guys know how this initial date goes.

I am still chatting with a couple of young girls on msn and doing the whole webcam thing with them. I am amazed at how horny and crazy these young girls are. I think that they would be fun to hang out with sometime but I don't know about any of them being potential candidates for a long term relationship. That's it for now, will post again after my dade with Katalina.

Hey it's Joe here. I guess it's time to make my first real post about dating. When I first joined the online dating site I was really worried I wasn't going to get any replies or inquiries and the whole thing not only would be a waste of time but my ego would be bruised and it would make it even harder to meet women. I am pleased to report that things have been going nothing but good since I joined the site. I have met 3 other women who are also divorced and they are all very hot and I would love to go out with any 3 of them. I have also been chatting with 3 other girls who are in their early 20's. I know they young and probably too young for me but it's good for my ego to get compliments from young twenty year old girls. One of them told me she wanted to chat with me on msn and show me some of her new bathing suits. I was like wtf is this for real... so I made an msn account and connected with her. I was sure that she would be much fatter and uglier than in her online profile and expected to regret the whole thing. Well guess what? She wasn't faking and she looked even better on webcam than she did in her pictures. She tried on and modeled about 6 different bathing suits for me. I have to admit it was pretty exciting if you know what mean cough cough. I wonder how many other guys she has done this too or lol was I the only one watching :S

I am trying to setup a dinner date with any of the 3 divorcees that I met because for starters just getting back out there I want a chill mature date with a mature women vs Jaegershots till 4am with some young shorty.