Things seem to be normal as normal can be right now. I have not missed taking any of my meds and I have been feeling great lately. I am going to court next week to deal with the charges but my lawyer is telling me that he believes that will be able to get me off of all charges because of my medical condition which is well documented. That is a big sigh of relief for me because I do not want to go to jail. I can only imagine what would happen in there if I missed some meds for whatever reason. There is no update on the potential lawsuit but I did hear that the footage of the cops beating the shit out of me also shows me flailing around like a madman swinging a metal chair and at them so I don't think my chances are very good that I will win any suit. My boss has been great but it does get annoying when someone is watching over your shoulder all the time to make sure you are staying on track. I mean I do appreciate it and all, and I know his heart is in the right place and he has the best of intentions but man he gets on my nerves sometimes.
Let's move on to some better news. I met this woman named Jackie. She is a nurse and she has a really big heart. She is like the most kind person I have ever met and I am thinking that she might be the exact kind of personality I need in my life right now. The truth is I have no idea what kind of woman is going to make me happy and satisfy me on every level but she is very different than most women I have been with so I am going to give it a shot and see what happens. There are a few other girls that I am exchanging messages with through the online dating site but none of them are as nice as Jackie. Ok, well there are 2 other girls that are hotter but I am not really making much headway with them and it is hard to gauge their level of interest in me. Anyways, I have been talking to Jackie a lot over msn and then eventually made the move to the phone. She has a really nice voice and I told her I was excited to get to know her better and meet up with her for dinner or something. She agreed to dinner and so I took her out to this awesome sushi place last saturday.
I decided I wasn't going to drink much, so I told her I would pick her up. I arrived at her place around 6:55 because we had planned to meet at 7pm and I sat there and waited. It seemed like I waited there for 30 minutes but it was only 15 minutes. As I sat there, I just kept getting more and more nervous until I felt almost sick to my stomach. I started to worry that maybe I was at the wrong address or that maybe she totally forgot about the date. I had a million things running through my mind and I know it's not wise to speculate but that is what I was doing and then finally she came out and I calmed right down. I got out of the car and went around and introduced myself and then opened the door for her all old fashioned style and shit - she loved it. We drove to the sushi place called Benihana. It is a place that specializes in Japanese style steak but they also have normal sushi so it is kind of like having the best of both worlds. The food was great and so was her company. She was so nice and polite, I felt like a bit of a savage around her. I kept wondering if she was a freaky perv in bed or not. Sometimes these quiet shy girls are freaky deaky in the sack. After dinner we piled into my car and I drove her home. I told her I had a great time and asked her if I could kiss her... she just giggled which I took as a yes and I leaned over and kissed her for a couple of minutes. We had a great time and I have been talking to her on the phone daily now. I am going to be getting together with her again this week.
Thursday, December 10. 2009
very strange night
Let me tell you about the date I went on with Katalina on Friday. If you recall I went and got a haircut and made sure I looked ok before going on my date with her. I took her to that restaurant I had mentioned and the food was really good. None of the books I read about dating helped much but I did find a few websites that told me what to talk about and more importantly what not to talk about on a first date.
Let me share with you what I learned and how it all went.
The first thing I learned was to ask a lot of questions. The more she talks about herself the better. Even when she asks you a question, try and reply in the form of a question.
Talk about family. Ask her questions about her family. Did she come from a big or a small family? Does she want a family? Did she enjoy growing up in her household around her family?
Tell jokes and be funny. When a woman is not talking, then she better be laughing.
Test and see how intelligent she is by talking about complex subjects probably starting with science and moving your way down to art eventually. Her replies will give you a good gauge on how soon you will get bored with her brain. jk.
Talk about yourself. You are probably thinking right now this doesn't make any sense... women don't want to hear a man go on and on about himself... but you are wrong cuz they do. The sooner you tell them about your likes and dislikes the sooner you can determine if there is a match between you. When I read this part I was skeptical but when I tried it on my date it worked well and I found out while we do have some things in common, we also had a lot of differences.
Exhibiting good taste. It seems that women prefer men who are somewhat cultured and who can appreciate the finer things in life and be able to recognize and comment on them.
Sex. Do not talk about it unless she brings it up first. You do not want to appear like most guys and come off as desperate.
So that is all the shit I learned and read online before I went on the date with Katalina and I think it helped a lot. We talked about a lot of stuff over dinner and thanks to using the system above I was able to find out pretty much everything I needed to know about her. By the end of dinner I already knew so much about her past and also about her personality and her likes and dislikes. I was thinking about the summary of all parts and I wasn't sure if this girl was going to be good long term material for me or not. I was thinking that maybe we didn't have enough in common and wasn't sure how long the magic would last.
She asked if I would like to come over to her place after dinner for a nightcap etc. I said ok and we proceeded to her place. Like I said before, she has two young kids and when we got to her place she said they were sleeping at it was no problem. We could chill out in the basement. She poured me a drink and we sat on the couch and we were chatting about bs nothing when all of a sudden she switched the conversation to sex. I was like hmmm should I bite or should I leave it alone. The next thing I know we are talking about all of our sexual preferences etc and because I had told her that I like blowjobs she said to me near the end. How about I give you a quick bj before you leave and I actually replied "what?" "what did you just say?" and she actually repeated it and I was like omg didn't see this coming. She totally surprised me but what was I supposed to say or do... I was like ok and she leaned over and unzipped my pants. It was a good night and I still am not sure how to interpret this. I have chatted a few times with her since then and she definitely wants to get together with me again but for some reason my gut is telling me she may not be the one so I am not in a rush to hang out with her again until I sort things out.
Let me share with you what I learned and how it all went.
The first thing I learned was to ask a lot of questions. The more she talks about herself the better. Even when she asks you a question, try and reply in the form of a question.
Talk about family. Ask her questions about her family. Did she come from a big or a small family? Does she want a family? Did she enjoy growing up in her household around her family?
Tell jokes and be funny. When a woman is not talking, then she better be laughing.
Test and see how intelligent she is by talking about complex subjects probably starting with science and moving your way down to art eventually. Her replies will give you a good gauge on how soon you will get bored with her brain. jk.
Talk about yourself. You are probably thinking right now this doesn't make any sense... women don't want to hear a man go on and on about himself... but you are wrong cuz they do. The sooner you tell them about your likes and dislikes the sooner you can determine if there is a match between you. When I read this part I was skeptical but when I tried it on my date it worked well and I found out while we do have some things in common, we also had a lot of differences.
Exhibiting good taste. It seems that women prefer men who are somewhat cultured and who can appreciate the finer things in life and be able to recognize and comment on them.
Sex. Do not talk about it unless she brings it up first. You do not want to appear like most guys and come off as desperate.
So that is all the shit I learned and read online before I went on the date with Katalina and I think it helped a lot. We talked about a lot of stuff over dinner and thanks to using the system above I was able to find out pretty much everything I needed to know about her. By the end of dinner I already knew so much about her past and also about her personality and her likes and dislikes. I was thinking about the summary of all parts and I wasn't sure if this girl was going to be good long term material for me or not. I was thinking that maybe we didn't have enough in common and wasn't sure how long the magic would last.
She asked if I would like to come over to her place after dinner for a nightcap etc. I said ok and we proceeded to her place. Like I said before, she has two young kids and when we got to her place she said they were sleeping at it was no problem. We could chill out in the basement. She poured me a drink and we sat on the couch and we were chatting about bs nothing when all of a sudden she switched the conversation to sex. I was like hmmm should I bite or should I leave it alone. The next thing I know we are talking about all of our sexual preferences etc and because I had told her that I like blowjobs she said to me near the end. How about I give you a quick bj before you leave and I actually replied "what?" "what did you just say?" and she actually repeated it and I was like omg didn't see this coming. She totally surprised me but what was I supposed to say or do... I was like ok and she leaned over and unzipped my pants. It was a good night and I still am not sure how to interpret this. I have chatted a few times with her since then and she definitely wants to get together with me again but for some reason my gut is telling me she may not be the one so I am not in a rush to hang out with her again until I sort things out.
Thursday, December 3. 2009
Success is mine!
Hello everyone. I am happy to report that I have a date lined up for tomorrow night. Her name is Katalina and she is 35 years old and she is also divorced. She said that she has a daughter and that her daughter lives with her. I have no problem dating someone with kids, I mean I have kids myself and even though I don't have custody of them anymore I am not bitter and I am down with dating someone who has kids themselves. She is an accountant and works at a small firm. She seems like a nice girl who just got caught up with some deadbeat and now has a kid to show for it.
I plan on taking her tomorrow to a restaurant called Lagniappe Brasserie which is this awesome French place I have been eager to go check out. I really need to take my car to the shop though because it is making this clicking sound in the engine. But I don't think I am going to have a chance to do this before our date tomorrow night. I am just going to have to lie and tell her that it just happened this morning or something.
I am pretty nervous about this date and I am going to get a fresh haircut in an hour or so from now and I have some nice clothes picked out for the date. I have been reading some online guides to dating and what I should and should not be asking or revealing on date one etc etc. I will let you guys know how this initial date goes.
I am still chatting with a couple of young girls on msn and doing the whole webcam thing with them. I am amazed at how horny and crazy these young girls are. I think that they would be fun to hang out with sometime but I don't know about any of them being potential candidates for a long term relationship. That's it for now, will post again after my dade with Katalina.
I plan on taking her tomorrow to a restaurant called Lagniappe Brasserie which is this awesome French place I have been eager to go check out. I really need to take my car to the shop though because it is making this clicking sound in the engine. But I don't think I am going to have a chance to do this before our date tomorrow night. I am just going to have to lie and tell her that it just happened this morning or something.
I am pretty nervous about this date and I am going to get a fresh haircut in an hour or so from now and I have some nice clothes picked out for the date. I have been reading some online guides to dating and what I should and should not be asking or revealing on date one etc etc. I will let you guys know how this initial date goes.
I am still chatting with a couple of young girls on msn and doing the whole webcam thing with them. I am amazed at how horny and crazy these young girls are. I think that they would be fun to hang out with sometime but I don't know about any of them being potential candidates for a long term relationship. That's it for now, will post again after my dade with Katalina.
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